Do I feel like I've failed? Of course. Do I care? Not anymore. If I'd quit sooner, maybe, but not now.
For everyone who endured this torture, thanks so much for reading and cheering me on.
One of my co-workers is expecting a baby girl in October. This crocheted blanket went to the new little princess last week. |
Though I don't believe that I'm addicted to the internet or social media, I do feel somewhat overwhelmed by it and have a need to occasionally get completely off the grid.What I thought
It is important for [me] to get time to [myself] in order to be the Mythical [Auntie I] need to be. When [I] get the opportunity to experience moments of pure, unadulterated, self reflection, it can be thoroughly reinvigorating.So, if an occasional break from the chaos of the bling and ping of electronics and social media makes me a better Auntie, I'm all for it.
Title: Hello, Beauty Full.
Author: Elisa Morgan
Info: Copyright 2015: Nashville: W Publishing Group
Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars): ✮✮✮✮
Where Acquired: Purchased from the author.
Category: This falls into two categories Impulse Reads and Recommended Reading. The author spoke at a ladies' brunch at my church and shared insights from this book. Her share time was so good, I decided to purchase of copy to get more of the story.
Synopsis: Beautiful. How many women actually see themselves as beautiful through the eyes of the Almighty? Using scripture and personal examples, Morgan takes the phrase "Hello, beautiful" and expounds on the elements of each portion of the phrase. Hello: the call to wake up to the hiss of enemy's lies. Beauty: The true godly elements of beauty that the world may or may not recognize. Full: the call to truly live life to the full as God intended.
Favorite Quotes:
"More pleasing to me than all your prayers, works, and penances is that you would believe I love you." - Brennan Manning, p. xxii
Rather than abandoning me to act sinful, God invites me into acting saved. Rather than leaving me indentured as a slave to shame, God releases me to unfettered freedom. Rather than only rescuing me from how I've been wounded, God heals me whole, as if the evil never occurred. - p. 13
At the turn of the first millennium, a monk named Bernard of Clairvaux clarified four stages of love, each building in maturity on the others:
1. Love of self for self's sake.
2. Love of God for self's sake.
3. Love of God for God's sake.
4. Love of self for God's sake. - p. 73
Quaker Parker J. Palmer wrote, "Our deepest calling is to grow into our authentic selfhood, whether or not it conforms to some image of who we ought to be. As we do so, we will not only find the joy that every human seeks--we will also find our path of authentic service to the world." - p. 76-77
The Positive:
Funeral services for Miss Shannon Maddox, 51, will be held Saturday (date) at 2:00 p.m (or whatever works for y'all). at Colorado Community Church in Aurora, CO, with Pastor Robert Gelinas officiating (or whoever at the church is willing to do it). Visitation will be an hour before the service. Miss Maddox died (where it happened). She is proceeded in death by her parents, ML and Dorsalean Maddox, her nieces, April Wade and Lucretia Looney, her brother, Melvin Brewster, and her sister, Laura Barlow. She is survived by her brothers, M. Brewster (Laura), T. Maddox (Marie), and D. Maddox; her sisters M. Cox (Jerry), M. Coleman, C. Bradford (Bernard), I. Guzman (Ramon), and a host of nieces, nephews, grandnieces, and grandnephews.
Known as "Auntie" by those who knew her, Miss Maddox, a native of Jacksonville, Alabama, was an artist, musician, writer and Bible teacher. In lieu of flowers please send donations to Colorado Family Life Center of Aurora, Colorado, The More Life Community Center of Aurora, Colorado, Colorado Christian University's College of Adult and Graduate Studies Hope Fund, Jacksonville Christian Academy's Scholarship Fund or Jacksonville State University's band scholarship fund. Or, if neither option is agreeable, use the gift as a random act of kindness for someone in need.
My attire:
I wish to be buried in a wedding gown. I don't care if it's a cheap one. In fact, since I know that the back of it will be cut out and it will draped over my body (thanks, GMM), a nice looking, inexpensive, white wedding gown will suffice. Why a wedding gown? This world (and unfortunately the church) placed such honor on wives and mothers while it dishonored someone like me for never getting married and/or never having children. I want to show honor to my Maker who is my Husband (Isaiah 54:5) by dressing for the marriage supper of the Lamb (Revelation 19:7-9)
The music: This is a celebration, so no sad songs allowed. AND SING LIKE YOU MEAN IT!
BTW--If anyone even HINTS at wanting to play I Can Only Imagine, please punch them in the throat. I liked that song when it first came out, but I've heard it and played it at so many funerals it's ruined it for me.
I know this isn't a sacred song, but if it's not too tacky, use it somewhere for the funeral. If I didn't accomplish anything else, I tried to bring joy to those I encountered.
What's said:
Dear Pastor Gelinas, please let everyone know where I went, how I got there, and how they can get there too. Plain, simple, direct.
Afterwards, have a party...a good one.
Love to you all.
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