See my post here for more information on My Mythical Year.
"Now is the winter of our discontent." - William Shakespeare. Richard III.
"But does it have to be EVERY winter?!" - Auntie.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Years ago, many thought it was a made-up hype disease, including me. I mean, doesn't everyone get depressed, isolate themselves and contemplate suicide every winter? Seriously, I thought it was made up. That is, of course, until I was diagnosed with it by a bona fide clinician.
Now recognized in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, SAD is a seasonal disorder that exhibits symptoms of major depression. Some of the symptoms I experience are:
- Lethargy and over sleeping.
- Increased appetite for simple carbohydrates or bingeing on junk food.
- Weight gain (well duh!).
- Abnormal social anxiety leading to isolation (including avoiding positive social media).
- Loss of interest in favorite activities (reading, painting, crafts).
- Cognitive issues / brain fog (brain fart syndrome, or as I call it, my blond roots showing way too much).
- Sadness for unknown reasons.
- Feeling of hopelessness and worthlessness leading to thoughts of suicide.
I'd gone through this cycle for years without really knowing why. The most serious case of it was in 2015 when I wrote this and had every intention of carrying it out. After sharing my struggle with some friends I trusted, I got some help that got me over the hump. Yet, every year, I suffered with this pernicious blight.
This winter, I decided that I'd had enough of giving up months of productivity and joy. I'd had enough of suffering in silent isolation. I'd had enough of watching those around me living life while I withered away in a corner like a forgotten houseplant.
For this experiment, I went old school Science class:
Elements of the experiment:
- The independent variable - my mind, mood, attitude and general mental health through this experiment.
- The dependent variable (expected outcome) - that I not experience any major depressive episodes during the experiment.
- The control group - I'd consider my mental health during all the years of suffering with SAD without knowing how to treat it the control group.
- The constant - the daily strategies outlined in this experiment.
- The Inference - the results, which I will expound on at the end of the experiment.
- The duration of the experiment - If I made it from November 1st through the first week of new year without any major depressive episodes, I considered the experiment a success. That's the timeframe when the majority of my symptoms occur the strongest.
#4 - Bring comfort to my surroundings. As I mentioned in this post, I decided to employ the Norwegian concept of koselig. Like the popular Danish concept of hygge, koselig is the act of finding the cozy of the season. I bought a cozy fleece throw for my couch, an assortment of flavored coffees and teas to enjoy, and some treats to make bath time more relaxing. I also worked to dump my normal winter mindset of dread. The biggest part of koselig and hygge isn't simply procuring comforting items, but developing a more positive mindset around the season. Embracing the cozy, if you will.
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#5 - Watch or listen to something funny or that improves my mood.
The Bible says that "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones" (Proverbs 17:22 KJV). When I'm feeling depressed, the last thing I want to do is listen to uplifting music or watch a funny video, yet keeping that kind of content going on good days makes it easier to partake of when my mood isn't the best. YouTube was my best resource for funny or uplifting videos. My Spotify "Happy 911" playlist was my source for music that improved my mood.
#6 - Don't power through or ignore negative feelings.
There were days that no matter what I did, my mood was down. Sickness, negative circumstances (and people), adverse weather conditions, hormones, and erratic sleep patterns wreaked havoc with my emotions. In the past, I would try to power through or medicate (mostly with food) those emotions to not feel them. This strategy not only made the pain last longer, but increased its intensity. I let myself experience the emotion and process through it to find possible solutions to the issues causing the turn. I was also honest with and asked for prayer from those close to me.
The Results
I am pleased to announce that the experiment was a success! I made it through the toughest part of the winter months with no major depressive episodes. Was my mood perfect throughout? No, but I never got into despair, and ending my life didn't even cross my mind.
As winter gives way to spring (whenever that is--Colorado remember?), I will continue to employ these strategies.
The Results
I am pleased to announce that the experiment was a success! I made it through the toughest part of the winter months with no major depressive episodes. Was my mood perfect throughout? No, but I never got into despair, and ending my life didn't even cross my mind.
As winter gives way to spring (whenever that is--Colorado remember?), I will continue to employ these strategies.
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