Showing posts with label Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Reading Challenge. Show all posts
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Saturday, December 31, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 25


Book: Evening By Evening.

Author: Charles Spurgeon

Info:  Copyright 2000: Nashville:  Thomas Nelson Inc.

Where acquired: Amazon purchase.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars):  ✮✭✭ 1/2

What it's about:  This is the companion devotional to Spurgeon's Morning by Morning.  The author gives reflective commentary on Scripture passages.

Favorite Quotes

"A sense of Christ's amazing love to us has a greater tendency to humble us than even a consciousness of our own guilt."  - p. 143.

"A deep sense of gratitude will nourish Christian zeal.  Looking a the hole of the pit whence we were digged, we find abundant reason why we should spend and be spent for God. "  - p. 147

"My looking to Jesus brings me joy and peace, but it is God's looking to Jesus which secures my salvation and that of all His elect, since it is impossible for our God to look at Christ, our bleeding Surety, and then to be angry with us for sins already punished in Him." - p. 208

"'Thou hast redeemed me, O Lord God of truth.' Redemption is a solid basis for confidence. David had not known Calvary as we have done, but temporal redemption cheered him; and shall not eternal redemption yet more sweetly console us? Past deliverances are strong pleas for present assistance. What the Lord has done he will do again, for he changes not. He is faithful to his promises, and gracious to his saints; he will not turn away from his people." - p. 220.

"Why then do we calculate our forces, and consult with flesh and blood to our grievous wounding? Jehovah has power enough without borrowing from our puny arm."  p. 261

"Purify flesh and blood by any educational process you may select, elevate mental faculties to the highest degree of intellectual power, yet none of these can reveal Christ." p. 283

"There is a way of joy as pure and sanctifying as though one bathed in the rivers of Eden: holy gratitude should be quite as purifying an element as grief." p. 332

What I Liked:
  • Spurgeon doesn't assume that all who will read the book are already Christians.  Several passages are evangelistic in nature.
  • The author speaks from a place of intimacy with the Almighty, so his take is not mere theory, but experience.  This makes his insights more genuine.
  • I enjoyed the author's flowing, poetic style of writing.
What I didn’t like: 
  • There are quoted passages with no reference cited, so we have no way to know where the quote came from.  There are also names and reference abbreviations that are not explained.
  • The fancy font used to quote the Bible passages was very hard to decipher.
  • This volume wasn't quite as intriguing as the companion volume.  There was a touch of unwarented negativity in some passages.  Some days, I felt like I was reading Oswald Chambers instead of Spurgeon.  Fortunately, those were few enough that I wasn't turned away from finishing the devotional.
Takeaway
Though this devotional wasn't quite as good as Morning by Morning, it will still remain a part of my personal library to be read again sometime in the future.  I'm also looking forward to reading other writings by this author.

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Aunite's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 24

BookLife Strategies.

Author: Dr. Phillip C. McGraw

Info: Copyright 1999:  New York:  Hyperion

Where acquired: Amazon purchase.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars): 

What it's about:  Dr. McGraw presents his ten life laws and seven life strategies for building a successful, authentic life.  Through real life examples and assignments, he asks the reader to take a long hard look at life and teaches how to form strategies for improvement.

Favorite Quotes

"In every church I have ever attended, the people with real problems hid them rather than seeking support, and those who didn't hide them wished they had, after the doses of guilt, judgment, or alienation they received.  We hide our problems, and judge those who don't or can't hide theirs.  It's not working people--not even close.  We have forgotten the basic laws of living in general, and living together in particular, and therefore violate them constantly." - p. 22

"Instead of asking whether the way you are living, behaving, and thinking is 'right,' I want you to ask whether the way you are living, behaving, and thinking is working or not working." - p. 30

"My dad had taught me there are times in life when you just don't want to miss a good chance to shut up." - p. 29

"Failure is no accident.  You set yourself up for it or you don't." p. 39 

"Once you acknowledge and embrace the second law [You Create Your Own Experience] you stop being a victim.  It's like sitting alone in a moving car, you can't not drive and expect anything besides a crash.  Take the wheel. Begin to consciously, purposefully, and actively create experiences that you do want, instead of suffering through experiences that you don't want." - p. 62

"Be a willing spirit.  Lean forward.  That doesn't mean that you are to suspend good judgement or take reckless risks in the name of willingness.  If someone is saying, 'Hey, try some cocaine; you'll love it.' that's obviously not the time to be a willing spirit.  Tell them to go blow their own nose!" - p 63

"Life doesn't reward quitting.  You are the only one who does that." - p. 110

What I Liked:
  • This book was written by a Doctor of Psychology, but it is not loaded with some pseudo-psychological, namby-pamby, mental voodoo.  Dr. McGraw, as he is known for, simply tells it like it is.  Yes, I like heavy reading, but I also want to understand what I read well enough to implement what it contains.
  • The author does ask the reader to deal with past issues, but he doesn't leave you there.  In fact, he emphasizes that one who still carries psychological or emotional baggage will not succeed at applying the strategies.
  • He doesn't tell you how to think, but he does get you thinking.
  • The assignments, though thorough, are an integral part of the entire life strategies process.  Without them, the book would be full of information, but no guidance on execution.
  • McGraw is very good at using humor to get his point across (thus some of the quotes above).
What I didn’t like: 
  • When it came to relationship strategies, McGraw assumes that the reader is in some sort of romantic relationship.  He didn't offer much help to those who wanted to improve friendships or fellowships, rather than marriages and dating situations.  Also, some of his assessment questions were scored based on a participants love and sex life.  So, what if you don't have one? Or want one?  Are those the only viable relationships?
  • Some parts were confusing.  For example, in Chapter Three:  You Create You Own Experience, McGraw seems to suggest that one takes the blame for every negative event in his life.  He nearly lost me on that one because I thought he was off his rocker.  It isn't until much later in the chapter that he explains that victims of certain atrocities are NOT responsible for creating that particular reality.  Yes, accountability is important, but not for victimization someone else is responsible for.
To sum up:  I attempted to read this years ago, but since I apparently wasn't ready for it, the book went back to the library unfinished.  Late last year, my mentor recommended I read it, so I purchased a used copy off the internet and got started.  Because of the assignments and soul searching required (plus rereading certain passages to deeply engrain them in my psyche), it took me all year to read it in its entirety.  Though I am still not done with all the assignments (you never really are), the book has helped me get a clearer picture of where I've been, and gives me better hope of getting to where I want to be.

Monday, December 26, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 23

BookBelieving God.

Author: Beth Moore

Info: Copyright 2004:  Nashville:  B&H Publishing Group.

Where acquired: Kindle download. 

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars): ✮✭✮✭

What it's about:  Moore gives a call to action for Christ followers to stop merely believing in God, but to believe who He is and what He says.



Favorite Quotes

"We can't blame the devil.  For the most part we've dumbed-down New Testament Christianity and accepted our reality as theology rather than biblical theology as our reality." - Location 107

"You and I can be safely tucked in the family of God and have the full assurance of a heavenly inheritance without ever occupying the land of God's fulfilled promises on earth. - Location 210

"I don't want to be counted among the faithless who never claimed the land God promised them.  All that will matter about our earthly lives when we receive our heavenly inheritance is whether we fulfilled our callings and allowed God to fulfill His promises.  I know I'm going to make it to heaven because I've trusted Christ as my Savior, but I want to make it to my Canaan on the way.  I want to finish my race in the Promised land, not in the wilderness." - Location 216

"Faith is the only thing that will ever close the gap between our theology and our reality." - Location 220

"If God said it, I want to believe it.  If God gives it, I want to perceive it.  If Satan stole it, I want to retrieve it." - Location  474

"Beloved, no one, no matter how brilliant, persuasive, or credentialed, should have the right to take away our hope.  The God we serve is able." - Location 650

What I Liked:

  • Beth Moore writes and teaches in the same style--in conversational style rather than a lecture.
  • Not only are her real life examples vivid, but humorous as well.  OK, in some passages, she just plain cracked me up.  The story about her nearly getting in a fight with a fellow minister in Chapter 8 is a good one. 
  • The study is based on the book of Joshua.  We are studying Joshua in Sunday School at the time of this writing, so it's a great companion to what I'm learning.
What I didn’t like: 
  • Kindle version doesn't have real page numbers. 
  • The "aside box."  (Been a while since I've had to fuss about that one). Plus, it's in a squiggly font that's hard to read.
  • The author never said what her class did with the "blue cords" mentioned at the beginning of the book.  She said she would, but I never saw where she did.
To sum up

In case you didn't know, I was Bible trained in a non-denominational church for the first 26 years of my Christian life.  I've been a part of my current church (a denominational church) for the past four years.  Yes, we have some doctrinal differences, but none of them are "go to heaven" issues.  All of the essential fundamentals of following Christ are the same.  So, what I don't get is that it took Beth Moore, who is widely accepted in denominational churches, to say what I've heard in the non-denominational churches for years.  The "name it, claim it" Moore warns the reader of is the very "With that same spirit of faith we also believe and therefore speak (II Corinthians 4:13)" she's preaching. 

Quite frankly, we have let buzzwords and prejudice keep us from learning from each other and from living a full Christian life.  We've let other people's opinions, rather than the Word of God, dictate what we believe.  I'm glad someone in denominational circles had the courage to write something like this.


Update (2017):  I purchased a print copy for my personal library.

Friday, December 23, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 22

Book:  Daring Greatly
 
Author:  Dr. Brene' Brown

Info: Copyright 2012,  Thorndike, MI: Center Point Large Print

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars): ✮✭✮✭

What it's about:  Dr. Brown's previous work The Gifts of Imperfection helped the reader recognize and conquer shame.  This work expands on moving from shame to vulnerability to truly live and authentic life. 

Favorite Quotes:

"Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage." - p. 52

"Until we can receive with an open heart, we are never really giving with an open heart.  When we attach judgment to receiving help, we knowingly or unknowingly attach judgment to giving help.  We all need help." - p. 72

"Perfection is not the key to success.  In fact, research shows that perfectionism hampers achievement,.  Perfectionism is correlated with depression, anxiety, addiction, and life paralysis or missed opportunities.  The fear of failing, making mistakes, not meeting people's expectations, and being criticized keeps us outside of the arena where healthy competition and striving unfolds." - p. 166

"'Don't try to win over the haters; you're not the jackass whisperer.'" - Scott Stratten. - p. 220

"I can honestly say that nothing is as uncomfortable, dangerous and hurtful as believing that I'm standing on the outside of my life looking in and wondering what it would be like if I had the courage to show up and let myself be seen." - p. 313

What I Liked:
  • Brown not only took great pains in researching her subject matter, she spent the same amount of time genuinely experiencing her theories in her own life.  She didn't play the distant clinician; she got just as messy as the people she studied.
  • Quite frankly, I enjoyed this book because it got into my head and brought out so many emotions.  A plethora of examples from this volume, both positive and negative, have played out in my own life.  The strategies employed in the text have given me hope to break the shame cycle and begin to live my life as God intended.
  • The author tackled the subject of parenting without turning the entire text into a mommy book.
What I didn’t like: 
  • The use of profanity.  I'm not easily bothered by it, but for such a powerful work, the cussing was little much.  Unlike the other book I read by this author, she does go over into "drunk uncle" level cussing.
Takeaway:  This is a secular work, but I wish church leaders would read it and implement it.  In fact, I wish every leader who wants to improve would take the time to partake of this tome.  Dr. Brown points out so much of what is wrong in the traditional approach to leadership.  The "never let them see you sweat" approach to leadership does more harm than good.  The use of shame to keep direct reports afraid and in line only sends the best workers to the competition.  Being the impersonal "boss," rather than a truly caring leader doesn't inspire anyone to go out of their way to meet your expectations. 

No, it's not a leadership book per se, but it's useful for that area of life.  It's not a parenting book, but it would help parents.  This book is useful for anyone wanting to live an authentic life.  I will definitely be purchasing my own personal copy of this book.

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 21

Book: To Know Her by Name.  (Rocky Mountain Memories #3)

Author: Lori Wick

Info:  Copyright 1997: Eugene, OR:  Harvest House Publishers

Where acquired: Library check out

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars): ✮✭

What it's about: McKay Harrington, an investigator for the Treasury Department, gets caught in the crossfire of a family on both sides of the law; Callie, a simple woman with a air of mystery about her, and her brothers, thieves on the run from the law.  Can McKay apprehend the brothers without harming Callie?  Can Callie be open with McKay about her life without sacrificing their new found romance?

What I Liked:
  • The book was well written as far as grammar and mechanics however...
What I didn’t like: 
  • ...this is (so far) the weirdest and worst story I've ever read from Lori Wick. It made absolutely no sense.  The character of Callie was written from the realms of schizophrenia--she's a highly intelligent spy one moment, and an addlepated klutzy hillbilly the next.  The chemistry between Callie and McKay is forced and unrealistic.  It also looked like Wick was trying to make this fit in the series by brief mentions of Travis Buchanan.  However, his part in the story didn't make horse sense.  He happens to meet McKay through some mysterious note, then later just so happens to be up in the hills where Callie lives?  Maybe Wick was having an off year or was trying to meet a publishing deadline.  This was so unlike her.
Takeaway:  I hope book four is better.  I'm almost afraid to read it.

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 20

Book:  A Christmas Carol
 
Author:  Charles Dickens

Info: Copyright 1986,  New York: Bantam Books.  (Originally Published in 1843

Where acquired: Either a yard sale or a library book sale; I don't remember.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars):  ✮✭✭✭

What it's about:  Dickens' classic story of Ebenezer Scrooge, a shrewd businessman with a penchant for greed and cruelty, especially at Christmas.  He is haunted by three spirits who show him through his past, present, and the "shadow" of the future the dangers of his lack of compassion.

Favorite Quotes:

Speaking of Scrooge:  "Even the blindmen's dogs appeared to know him; and when they saw him coming on, would tug their owners into doorways and up courts; and then would wag their tails as though they said, 'no eye at all is better than an evil eye, dark master!'" - p. 6

"Man," said the Ghost, "if man you be in heart, not adamant, forbear that wicked cant until you have discovered What the surplus is, and Where it is. Will you decide what men shall live, what men shall die? It may be, that in the sight of Heaven, you are more worthless and less fit to live than millions like this poor man’s child. Oh God! to hear the Insect on the leaf pronouncing on the too much life among his hungry brothers in the dust!" - p. 53

What I Liked:
  • Though this story is set in Victorian England, its message is universal to all of humanity.
What I didn’t like: 
  • I know this is a trait of Dickens' writing, but he writes 8 pounds to the word.  He can take two paragraphs to simply say that someone is dead.  It reminds me of when I weeded through Moby Dick in graduate school.  Flowery language is one thing, but goodness, get it said!
Takeaway
Through the years, I've seen various movie adaptations of this story, but I'd never sat down and read the actual book.  Reading it made me love the story even more.  Rereading this may become a yearly Christmas tradition.

Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 19

Book:  Whispers of Moonlight. (Rocky Mountain Memories #2)

Author:  Lori Wick

Info: Copyright 1996, Eugene, OR:  Harvest House Publishers

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars):  ✮✭✭✭

What it's about:  We were introduced to Travis Buchanan and the mystery of his missing wife, Rebecca,  in book one of this series. The back story reveals the couple's whirlwind marriage and a gross misunderstanding that separates them for years.  During their time apart, Travis' love for Rebecca never wanes, and he discovers the love of Christ, while Rebecca deems herself too hurt for any kind of love.  When they reunite, Travis must first prove his undying love for his bride before he can have any hope of her accepting the love of God. 

What I Liked:
  • There wasn't a tidy ending to this novel.  Everyone didn't end up married and/or saved.
  • The balance between tenderness and discipline between a father and his children was refreshing to see.
What I didn’t like: 
  • I've talked about this before, but I grow weary that the author feels the need to throw in some unbelief to explain God's sovereignty.  The best way to emphasize that is not to make God out to be an indiscriminant torturer of His children.  Rather, talk about the things that He sovereignly put in His Word about His goodness and love, and the fact that His will isn't that any should perish, but that all come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.
Takeaway:  Book two is a great sequel to book one.

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 18

Book:  Where the Wild Rose Blooms. (Rocky Mountain Memories #1)

Author:  Lori Wick

Info: Copyright 1996, Eugene, OR:  Doubleday Large Print

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 stars):  ✮✭✭✭
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What it's about:  Clayton Taggart, a hard working miner with aspirations of being a school teacher, has met his match in Jacqueline (Jackie) Fontaine.  Headstrong, prideful, and angry, Jackie makes her disdain of Clayton in particular and men in general quite clear.  However, is it disdain, or a cover up for something else?  Will a horrible accident destroy any chance of a friendship between them?

What I Liked:
  • This story was so good that I couldn't put it down.
  • I've read many of Wick's books, the spiritual aspect of this novel is a new angle for her.  She presented a character who thought he knew Christ because of his good deeds, not because of a decision to follow Christ. 
  • There's some chuckle worthy humor and banter among the characters.
  • Small spoiler: the interaction with a blind character in the book was not stereotypical.  They treated her as normally has possible.
What I didn’t like: 
  • The nicknames of two main characters, Addy and Eddie, got confusing sine they interacted with each other in the story.
Takeaway:  A good beginning to another book series.

Auntie's 2016 Bookwom Challenge 17

Book:  The Holy Bible:  New Living Translation (NLT).

Info: Copyright 2013,  Carol Stream, IL:  Tyndale House Publishers

Where acquired: Purchased at Books-A-Million.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # #

What it's about: This is a large print version of a modern English translation of the Old and New Testaments.  I've read several passages from this Bible version in the context of other Scripture-based literature, but I'd never sat down and read the whole thing from cover to cover.

What I Liked:
  • Though my favorite Bible translation is still the King James Version, the more modern language of the NLT does help clarify some of the more complicated passages.
  • The larger print was easy on the eyes.
  • OK, so I liked the pink cover.  What?  I'm a girl.
What I didn’t like: 
  • Nothing.
Takeaway:  I know this review is short and sketchy, however, reading the Bible isn't like reading any other book.  The text is much more powerful and meaningful than that.  I think this version of the Bible would be great for anyone who is new to reading the Scriptures.  However, this is not a study Bible per se in that it gives the clarity of a paraphrase to passages, but not the depth of a literal translation.  I'll definitely continue to use it as a reference.

Saturday, November 12, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 16

Book:  Jessie. (Big Sky Dreams Trilogy #3) 

Author:  Lori Wick

Info: Copyright 2008,  Detroit:  Thorndike Press

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # #

What it's about:  Picking up where Sabrina left off, Jessica (Jessie) Wheeler, owner of the Token Creek's mercantile, finds Seth, who she believes is the love of her life.  Years into the relationship, the couple is plagued with self-made misery.  So much so that the family totally disintegrates and Jessie is left alone.  Seth, suffering the consequences of the life he led while separated from Jessie, comes to Christ, and his senses.  Will Jessie take Seth back?  Can she trust him? More importantly, can she trust in his God through all the pain and uncertainty?

Favorite Quotes:

None that I could think of.

What I Liked:
  • Things between Jessie and Seth didn't instantly clear up.  Both characters had to mature and put serious work into reviving their relationship.
  • Wick quite cleverly included characters from a different book series into this novel.
What I didn’t like: 
  • The relationship between two minor characters went from calling, to courting, to marriage way too quickly. 
  • There always seems to be some unbelief, or at least questionable belief in these books.  This one seemed to be overloaded with it.
  • Jessie's children, ages nine and seven, were written way too immaturely. 
  • The big "mystery" of why Rylan calls Sabrina by her full name was never revealed.  Such a big deal was made about it in book two, it seemed it would be mentioned in the final book of the series.
Takeaway:  Though this book wasn't as good as the first two in the trilogy, it was still a good read.

Sunday, November 6, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 15

Book:  The Gifts of Imperfection. 

Author:  Brene' Brown

Info: Copyright 2010, Center City, MN:  Hazelden Publishing

Where acquired: Gift from my mentor.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # #

What it's about:  Dr. Brown has done extensive research on shame and vulnerability.  The experience of this research led her to study the components of an authentic life.  The imperfect life she speaks of is not imperfect in that everything is wrong, but imperfect because that life  doesn't look like society says it's supposed to.  Her themes of courage, connection, and compassion and her ten guideposts of life draw the reader to seek authenticity and wholehearted living.

Favorite Quotes:

"When we can let go of what other people think and own our story, we gain access to our worthiness--the feeling that we are enough just as we are and that we are worthy of love and belonging." - p. 23.

"...the absence of love and belonging will always lead to suffering." - p. 26.

"'To be nobody-but-yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody but yourself--means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight--and never stop fighting.'" E. E. Cummings. - p. 51

"Stillness is not about focusing on nothingness; it's about creating a clearing.  It's opening up an emotionally clutter-free space and allowing ourselves to feel and think and dream and question.."  p 108

What I Liked:
  • The author doesn't refer to this work as a self-help book, and it's not.  Self-help denotes self improvement outside of community.  Successful implementation of the concepts of the book require connection.
  • Dr. Brown seemed to be reading my mind and attitude in much of what she wrote. This gives her writings universality and genuineness.
  • Her research wasn't simply based on the lives of others, she has experienced the process herself.  In other words, it's not just "do as I say because my research says so," she's actually lived it.
  • I love her use of humor. 
  • She is an academic--a researcher, but the book doesn't bog down in obfuscation.  In other words, she doesn't talk eight pounds to word; she gets it said intelligently, but without patronizing language.
What I didn’t like: 
  • There is some strong language (cussing) in the book.  It doesn't permeate the text, but it's there.  It's nothing I haven't heard (or said), and it's not drunk uncle language, so it doesn't bother me.  However, some people may be offended by it.
  • This is a moot point, but I don't like Dr. Brown's take on the phrase "bless your heart."  She sees the phrase as passive aggressive.  Maybe in Texas, but here in the deep South, that's not how it's used.  It's not even a major point in the book, but it bugged me.
Takeaway:  I first came across Brene' Brown's work when I viewed a 99U speech on creativity and criticism (the video is below), so I knew her materials would be helpful. 

Dr. Brown's book has been a major game changer in my life.  I've walked around carrying feelings of shame and the overwhelming message that who I am and what I do is never enough.  Reading this has given me weapons and strategies to begin overcoming these obstacles of authentic living.  I'll definitely read more of Brene' Brown's work.

Saturday, November 5, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 14

Book:  Sabrina. (Big Sky Dreams Trilogy #2) 

Author:  Lori Wick

Info: Copyright 2007,  Detroit:  Thorndike Press

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # 1/2

What it's about:  Picking up where Cassidy left off, Sabrina (Bri) Matthews finds herself relocating from Denver to Token Creek, and not under the best circumstances.  While trying to flee from her sorted past, she finds the love of Christ.  But is that enough?

Favorite Quotes:

Not any quotes per se, but I did enjoy that the dialogue was much better constructed than the prequel.

What I Liked:
  • Without giving too much away, though there was a bit of violence in the novel, it forced characters out of their perfect little worlds to have to deal with lives on the "bad" side of town--or the place where real ministry happens. 
  • I know I've said it before, but it bears repeating, Wick has a way of making her novels romantic and sexy without ever being dirty of explicit.  She takes the reader only as far as she needs to go, yet the romance isn't prudish.
  • The author tied these first two novels together well.
  • The Pastor in the story isn't depicted as some limp wristed pantywaist.  He's tender with children, the hurting, and his parishioners, but tough on perpetrators of violence.  There was a scene where he literally tore a door off its hinges with his bare hands to rescue someone.  Now, that's what I'm talking about!
What I didn’t like: 
  • Some characters were introduced rather abruptly.  In the middle of a scene, a character would just pop up out of nowhere as if the reader should already know who they were.
  • The big deal about why Sabrina's beau calling her by her full name instead her nickname was to overhyped, then never explained.
  • Someone was killed at the beginning of the story, yet no details of what happened or what Sabrina may have had to do with it were given.
Takeaway:  These first two novels were really good.  Let's hope the third of the trilogy is just as good.

Wednesday, November 2, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge: 13

Book:  Relationships:  A Mess Worth Making.

Author:  Timothy Lane and Paul Tripp

Info: Copyright 2008:  Greensboro, NC:  New Growth Press

Where acquired: Amazon purchase (actually at the time of download, the authors offered the book for free).

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # #

What it's about:  Relationships off all kinds can get extremely messy.  Whether as a spouse, best friend, or co-worker, we all need help to improve and understand the true focus of godly relationships.  Lane and Tripp use scripture and personal examples to show the reader how all of our relationships can be a glowing example of Christ.

Favorite Quotes:

"Is it okay to keep to ourselves so that we don’t get hurt and don’t hurt anyone else? What’s wrong with playing it safe? Yet something keeps dragging us back to other people. We know we are less than human when we are all alone." - p. 17

"The biblical teaching of the Trinity is very practical for relationships since God himself is a model of loving, cooperative, unified community where diversity is an asset, not a liability. If God is making us into his likeness, we can be encouraged that he will give us the grace to live like this in community with one another." - p. 22

"No human being was ever meant to be the source of personal joy and contentment for someone else. And surely, no sinner is ever going to be able to pull that off day after day in the all-encompassing relationship of marriage! Your spouse, your friends, and your children cannot be the sources of your identity. When you seek to define who you are through those relationships, you are actually asking another sinner to be your personal messiah, to give you the inward rest of soul that only God can give." - p. 59

"God’s redemptive work of change is ongoing in all our lives. When I forget this, I become self-righteous, impatient, critical, and judgmental. I give in to the temptation to play God and try to change you in ways only God can." - p. 64

"Imagination gives us a deeper sense of two unseen realities: (1) our identity, the unseen realities of who God says we are; and (2) God’s resources, the unseen realities of his presence with us and provision for us."  pp. 157-158.

"It [worship] is not vacuous emotionalism, but rather praise that lives in the middle of fear, pain, hurt, and disappointment. The praise never ignores these experiences. Instead, it grows more thankful as it recognizes the redeeming God who meets us in life’s pains and joys." - p. 169

What I Liked:
  • This book wasn't solely about marriage relationships and wasn't worded in "couple-ese."  Though the content would be great for a married couple, it is more than appropriate for any interpersonal relationship.
  • The authors pointed out the relationship of the Holy Trinity as an example of how we can walk in unity and true Christ-centered friendships.  I'd never thought of it that way before.
  • The admission that when people are struggling, they don't simply need and explanation of why what's wrong is wrong, but they need true solutions and help to see that those solutions are viable was so refreshing.  In other words, the advice was simple, but not simplistic and patronizing.
  • The Kindle version has real page numbers.
What I didn’t like: 
  • Though the authors use true life stories as examples, many of them are left unfinished.  Hey, we want to know what happened.
  • There was no way to know which author was speaking when giving an example from his own life.
  • The last chapter was odd in that it kept referencing the lyrics to a Green Day song that was never named and the lyrics never quoted.  I'm not sure what that was about.
Takeaway:  I wish I could remember who recommended this book to me last year because I would like to thank them.  Quite honestly, when I first delved into this tome, I though the authors' counsel was going to put the Christian in the position of the doormat who must always acquiesce, however, this was not the case.  This book answered many of the questions about why I was doing relationships wrong and how I can be a better friend, church member, and employee.  I would recommend this book to anyone struggling with relationship and any couple considering marriage (no, the book isn't aimed at couples, but it would help tremendously).  The advice is not gospel fluff, but hardcore Scripture-backed practical solutions.

Saturday, October 15, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 12

Book: The Lord's Table

Author: Andrew Murray

Info:  Copyright 2015:  New York:  Scriptura Press (Originally published in 1897).

Where acquired: Amazon download.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # #

What it's about: Andrew Murray takes the reader on a spiritual odyssey of the Eucharist--the observation of the Lord's Supper.  Using scripture passages and prayers, he attempts to take Communion from mere ritualistic sacrament to a sacred renewal of spirit.  The odyssey begins the week before partaking, goes through passages and prayers referring to each element, and ends the week after partaking.

Favorite Quotes:

"The problem of self-examination is simple. According to the apostle, there are but two conditions, either Jesus Christ is in you, or ye are reprobate: one of two. There is no third condition. The life of Christ in you may still be weak; but if you are truly born again and a child of God, Christ is in you. And then as a child you have access to the table of the Father and a share in the children's bread."- Location 187.

"Christian, prepare yourself for the Holy Supper by thinking of your sins. Be not afraid to make mention of them by name before Jesus. Point out to Him that which you desire He should change in you. Sin which is not confessed is also not combated. When a saved soul goes to Jesus to speak with Him about sin, and to make it known to Him, it breaks sins power and makes Him more precious. The very same light that enables you to feel the curse of sin more deeply, enables you also to discern the perfect and final victory over it. The experience, utterly lost, prepares the way for the experience utterly redeemed."  Location 246. 

"God is too little honored by His people.  A joyful, thankful Christian shows that God can make those that serve Him truly happy.  He stirs up others to praise God along with him." - Location 624.

"It was to bring to us this heavenly life that the Son of God descended to earth.  It was to make this life accessible to us that He died like the seed corn in the earth, that HIS body was broken like the bread grain.  It is to communicate this life to us and to make it our own, that He gives Himself to us in the Supper." - Location 697.

"Food involves quickening and joy.  Eating is not only necessary as medicine for strength, but is also in itself something that is acceptable, and imparts pleasure.  To observe a feast in the spirit of itself equivalent to food.  Obedience to the will of God was Jesus' highest joy." - Location 760.

What I Liked:
  • Murray himself says this his volume is not a replacement for Scripture, but a study guide to the particular subject of Holy Communion.  He guides you to the Bible, not away from it to his own words.
  • The prayers that accompany the devotional passages are not only poetic, but deep in substance.  They truly take the believer to a place of fellowship with God when prayed sincerely and purposefully.
  • I wanted to time reading this book with when my church observed the Lord's Supper.  However, the book can be used for personal communion.
  • This book is for any Christian of any denomination.  The author doesn't go into specific ceremony, but lays out the deeper meaning of the sacrament.
What I didn’t like: 
  • Years ago, I had purchased a print version of this volumeHowever, it was so riddled with typographical and punctuation errors and incorrect scripture references that I got frustrated and ditched it.  I decided to try again this year and found a free PDF version.  Again, no editor took time to correct these errors.  But, I figured, it was free, so I expected too much.  So I paid for the Kindle version.  I was disappointed to see that this version also contained the same errors.  I wish the publishers understood that correcting those errors does not diminish the text or message at all.  In fact, having a corrected copy would enhance it
  • The Kindle version doesn't have real page numbers.  It really looks like the publisher simply slapped this volume together. So, any negatives are not with the content of the book, but how it was formatted and presented.  Just because it's Christian doesn't mean that it should be mediocre.  In fact, more care should have been taken in preparing it.
Takeaway:  I'd recommend this book to anyone who desires a deeper walk with the Lord and wants to take his participation in communion to a higher spiritual level.  I most likely won't read it every time I take communion, but I would like to go through the devotional at least once a year.

Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 11

Book: Cassidy.  (Big Sky Trilogy #1) 

Author: Lori Wick

Info:  Copyright 2007,  Detroit:  Thorndike Press

Where acquired: Library check out

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # 1/2

What it's about:  Set in the late 1800's, Cassidy Norton, the town's premiere seamstress, is beloved by her church family and well respected in the community of Token Creek.  She seems to have it all, but a dangerous secret threatens to destroy Cassidy's world.  Plus, will she choose rich comfort or true love?

What I Liked:
  • Usually I don't like sappy love scenes, but the scene where Cassidy's beau proposes was the beautiful kind of sappy.
  • There was enough action to keep the book from being boring.
  • Wick brings in romance and sexual tension without being explicit or nasty.  The physical expressions of love are tender, rather than rapey and pornographic.
What I didn’t like: 
  • Many of the interactions between the characters were trite.  They all seemed to start with "How are you?" "Fine."  Come on now.  I've eaten bread fresher than this dialogue.
  • One of the characters left town because a character married someone else.  Really?  Is there only one girl in the town?  Can these guys not put on their big boy panties and suck it up?  Sorry, but I rolled my eyes at this one.
Takeaway:  Good book. I can't wait to read book two.

Monday, September 12, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 10

Book: Crazy Love.

Author: Francis Chan

Info: Copyright 2013:  Colorado Springs, CODavid C, Cook.

Where acquired: LifeWay Purchase

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # 

What it's about:  Do we love God like crazy?  Chan uses scripture, stories, and his experiences to show the reader where they are lacking in their love for Christ and declares that believers can go from lukewarm to red hot for God.

Favorite Quotes:

"Some people claim that we can be Christians without necessarily becoming disciples.  I wonder, then, why the last thing Jesus told us was to go into the world, making disciples of all nations, teaching them to obey all that He commanded?  You'll notice that He didn't add, 'But hey, if that's too much to ask, tell them to just become Christians--you know, the people who get to go to heaven without having to commit to anything.'" - p. 87

"When you are pursuing love, running toward Christ, you do not have the opportunity to wonder, Am I doing this right?  or Did I serve enough this week?  When you are running toward Christ, you are freed up to serve, love, and give thanks without guilt, worry, or fear.  As long as you are running, you are safe." - p. 104

"Something's wrong when our lives make sense to unbelievers." p. 112

"If one person 'wastes' away his day by spending hours connecting with God, and the other person believes he is too busy or has better things to do than worship the Creator and Sustainer, who is the crazy one?" - p. 133

"Our view of the Holy Spirit is too small.  The Holy Spirit is the One who changes the church, but we have to remember that that Holy Spirit lives in us.  It is individual people living Spirit-filled lives that will change the church." - p. 171

What I Liked:
  • His "Profile of the Lukewarm" in chapter 4 was an eye opener.
  • The stories of faith he shared were compelling,
  • The author's premise was formidable though his execution was sorely lacking.
What I didn’t like: 
  • I approached the purchase of this book with much trepidation.  I hardly ever purchase brand new books from authors I have not previously  read.  People from diverse ages and stages recommended it, so I figured I wasn't getting a one-sided view of the text.  Crazy Love fell way short of my expectations.  My hope was that the content of the book would be a presentation of the love story between us and God; how crazy His love is for us, and how we can show our crazy love for Him in a more meaningful and intimate way.  That ain't what I got.  The main problem with Chan's book is that it is full of mixed messages, plus he targets one audience; middle and upperclass churchgoers who put more faith in their money than in the God they claim to serve.  I am not that audience.  He spends most of the book bashing the rich, or practically anyone who owns more than one pair of socks.  He says that he's not saying that we need to work harder and give more to earn God's love while saying that we need to work harder and give more to earn God's love.  God's grace is a mere afterthought.  Sorry, Brother Chan, I'm looking for more intimacy with God, not more work that keeps me away from Him.
  • The story of "Brooke" on page 50 is very suspect.  Why would a 14 year old girl be out driving alone?  The story sounds overhyped and bogus, or the wording is awkwardly misleading.
  • I'm quite disturbed that Chan takes on the role of judge and decides on people's eternal destination.  He says he doesn't want people to doubt their salvation while wording his chapters as if to say that everyone is lukewarm and should doubt their salvation.  Yes, being perpetually lukewarm in spirit is dangerous, but quite frankly, if someone lukewarm is reading his book, it's not because they want to stay that way.  Revelation 3:14-22 was written to the church of Laodicea.  They were believers who had lost their fire for Christ.  God urged them to repent and come to Him for what they needed to get back on the right path.  He warned them out of love, not because He was itching to dish out some harsh judgment.  Verse 19 of that same chapter says, "As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent."
  • I'm troubled by Chan's message that in order for others to be served and blessed, someone else has to have less--as if to say God wasn't smart enough to put enough resources on the planet for everyone.  Yes, we who follow Christ should be extravagant givers, and no, God is not pleased with selfishness.  The point is that we shouldn't be ashamed of what God has given us, but to be more than willing to share it and to glorify God with it. 
  • When it came down to the "how," Chan gives the Prince answer, "You're on your own!"  This book totally beats down the reader, yet never builds him back up.
Takeaway:  Going through this book was quite a depressing experience and I was left very empty.  The only joy came from the wonderful book discussions I had with my sister-in-blog Annie.  I do feel as though I flushed $16 down the potty (yeah, $16 and the book wasn't even hardcover!), but hey, I'll keep the book in my collection for when I become one of those middle class people he hates so much.  I can guarantee that my time will not be spent in hoarding my blessings...then or now.

Sunday, September 11, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookwork Challenge 09

Book: Come Rain or Come Shine.

Author: Jan Karon

Info: Copyright 2015:  Farmington Hills MI:    Thorndike Press (Large Print Edition)

Where acquired: Library check out

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # # 

What it's about:  Of all the adventures of Father Tim Kavanagh in the Mitford series, the marriage of his adopted son, Dooley, is the most extravagant of all.  Dooley and his fiancé Lace, two throw away children from abusive homes who slowly fell in love, experience the absolute nuttiness of planning what was to be a simple wedding.  With humor, romance, and a little bit of animal wrangling, the town of Mitford comes together to help them pull it off.

Favorite Quotes:

"What am I gon' wear?" said Harley.
"Your teeth, for sure," said Lace. - p. 34.

"Go out there and be as happy as a bird with a French fry."  p. 245

"Tommy grinned.  He'd never heard so many amems, and he'd been raised Baptist." - p. 270

"Danny Hershell had read the program and knew this was it, it was now or never. 'Kiss th' bride!' he hollered. What was wrong with people in this religion that guys didn't get to kiss th' bride?  His mama would kill him, but she had killed him before any number of times." - p. 276

What I Liked:
  • Lace's journal entries about her relationship with Dooley were darling.
  • This may seem strange, but the fact that everything was not neatly tidied up at the end.  There were still unresolved painful situations, and some of the character's stories were left open--whether to the reader's imagination or to the possibility of the author adding to the series.
  • The wedding ceremony was more beautiful that anything Hollywood could come up with.
  • I simply enjoyed the emotional effect of the story.  It was romantic without being mushy, dramatic without being exaggerated, and joyous without being ridiculously over the top.
What I didn’t like: 
  • The reference to the "OMC."  If someone hasn't read any of the other books, he may not know that it refers to Esther Bolik's famous Orange Marmalade Cake.  They also won't know why this cake is pivotal to the entirety of the series. 
  • This is a little bit of a SPOILER:  I would like to have known more about the specifics of Sammy's experience with Teen Boot Camp. 
  • This might be the last book of the Mitford series.
Takeaway:  I'm not sure if this truly is the last book in Karon's Mitford series, but if so, it beautifully drew together these beloved characters for a triumphant finish. 

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 08

Book: Somewhere Safe with Somebody Good.

Author: Jan Karon

Info:  Copyright 2014: New York:  G. P. Putnam and Sons

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # #

What it's about:  Picking up where Light From Heaven left off (sort of), Jan Karon brings us back to the world of Father Tim Kavanagh and the downhome folks at Mitford.  Retirement is not setting well with the Episcopal Vicar, while change is not setting well with the rest of the town.  Changes in leadership, suicide, and angry teenagers bring Father Tim to the brink of breakdown.  Through it all God remains faithful.

Favorite Quotes

"His relationship with Emma Newland [retired church secretary] personified what he'd heard about childbirth--one forgot the agony 'til the next time around." - p. 90.

When questioned about the breed of his dog:  "Mongrel, like the rest of us." - Father Brad.  p. 341.

"Love is an act of endless forgiveness." - p. 350.

What I Liked:
  • This book is part of a series.  Karon does a masterful job of weaving the differing storylines from the previous novels together.
  • The quotes sprinkled in about books and reading were quite enjoyable.
  • The humor infused in this volume gave many "LOL" moments.
  • The love letters between Father Tim and his wife, Cynthia were precious.
  • The Christmas celebration at the end of the book was truly moving.
What I didn’t like: 
  • There were several instances of missing essential information.  Without giving spoilers, an example would be that a character ended up in the emergency room, yet the outcome was never revealed.
  • What was the deal about the raisins?
Takeaway:  I feel that my review doesn't do the book justice.  Those of us who've read the previous series are glad to be back to the small town fun of Mitford.   Reading the ups and downs of Father Tim is an inspirational example of exceptional living.  Not only is Father Tim deeply spiritual, but remarkably intelligent and has the depth of feeling needed in any man of faith.

Monday, August 22, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 07


Book: Up From Slavery.

Author: Booker T. Washington

Info: Copyright 1993:  Avenel, New Jersey:  Gramercy Books (Originally Published  in 1901).

Where acquired: Library check out.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # #

What it's about:  Washington chronicles his progression from slavery in Virginia to establishing the Tuskegee Normal School (now Tuskegee University) in Alabama.

Favorite Quotes:

"I have begun everything with the idea that I could succeed, and I never had much patience with the multitudes of people who are always ready to explain why one cannot succeed." p. 49.

"Among a large class there seemed to be a dependence upon the government for every conceivable thing.  The members of this class had little ambition to create a position for themselves, but wanted the federal officials to create one for them.  How many times I wished then, and have often wished since, that by some power of magic I might remove the great bulk of these people into the country districts and plant them upon the soil, upon the solid and never deceptive foundation of Mother Nature, where all nations and races that have ever succeeded have gotten their start--a start that at first may be slow and toilsome, but one that nevertheless is real."  - p. 66.

About the erection of the first official school building at Tuskegee:  "When it is considered that the laying of this cornerstone took place in the heart of the South, in the Black Belt, in the center of the part of our country that was most devoted to slavery; that at that time slavery had been abolished only about sixteen years; that only sixteen years before that no Negro could be taught from books without the teacher receiving the condemnation of the law or of public sentiment--when all this is considered, the scene that was witnessed on that spring day in Tuskegee was a remarkable one.  I believe there are few places in the world where it could have taken place." - pp. 105-106.

"My experience is that there is something in human nature which always makes an individual recognize and reward merit, no matter under what color of skin merit is found.  I have found too that it is the visible, the tangible, that goes a long way in softening prejudices." p. 113.

"Right here, perhaps, I ought to add that I make it a rule never to go before an audience on any occasion without asking the blessing of God upon what I want to say."  p. 157.

The entirety of Mr. Washington's Atlanta Exposition speech on pages 160-164.

"I believe that one always does himself and his audience an injustice when he speaks merely for the sake of speaking.  I do not believe that one should speak unless, deep down in his heart, he feels convinced that he has a message to deliver.  When one feels, from the bottom of his feet to the top of his head, that he has something to say that is going to help some individual or some cause, then let him say it; and in delivering his message I do not believe that many of the artificial rules of elocution can, under such circumstances, help him very much."  pp. 178-179.

What I Liked:
  • Washington's story reads like a documentary with some old fashioned common sense thrown in.
  • The authors victories and defeats were not sugar coated.  His writings expressed both a thorough enjoyment of the positive and the learning opportunities gleaned though the negative.  An example is the school's first attempts at brick making.  Several kilns failed, and Washington had to pawn a valuable watch to purchase materials for the kiln that finally succeeded.
  • Though more than 100 years old, Booker T. Washington's story of rising from obscurity to fame is an inspiration and encouragement to all, regardless of race.  The book was a delight to read.
  • Now that I've read this, I'd like to take a tour of Tuskegee University.
  • I already have an electronic copy of this tome.  I plan to make a hardcover edition a permanent part of my library. 
What I didn’t like: 
  • I was confused by a passage in chapter six.  Washington described a scene on a segregated train car in which a black man, who by all distinguishing features couldn't be identified as black, was easily identified as so by the conductor's looking at his feet.  Forgive my ignorance, but how is that possible if the man's feet were as pale as the rest of his skin?  Weird.
  • Statement on page 194:  "I have never seen a game of football."  Now, that's just sad.
  • Though I enjoyed the presentation of special events in his life, Washington lists way too many names.  Though I realize it is not, the listings read like filler material.
  • I would have liked to have heard about Mr. Washington's encounters with his students.  As a teacher, I know that there are some students who stand out among their peers.  Some anecdotal accounts of his teaching years would have been a great addition to the book.
Takeaway

Booker T. Washington
Some have criticized this book because Washington was willing to befriend and accept aid from anyone, no matter his race.  Washington's efforts were also criticized by some of his contemporaries, including W.E.B. DuBois, who felt that practical industrial work was beneath black students.  Washington rallied for the teaching both industrial and intellectual studies.  Today, we are facing some of the same problems.  At present, some individuals consider practical industry beneath them, while others consider the intellectual "too white."  It's really as sad state of affairs.  This is not something I read; as a Southern black woman, I'm exposed to evidence of it nearly every day.

I think this book should be required reading in high schools and to any adult who hasn't read it.  They will then know what "the struggle" really looks like.  They will then know that it's important to put forth effort and "have some skin in the game" for anything, whether an education, a job, or any material possession, to have any intrinsic value.  They will then know what true positive race relations look like.  Mr. Washington accomplished all his success during the Reconstruction / Jim Crow era of Southern history.  What was widely accepted law then, is illegal and subject to prosecution now.  So, what's our problem?

Friday, August 5, 2016

Auntie's 2016 Bookworm Challenge 06

BookEvery Storm

Author: Lori Wick

Info: Copyright 2004:  Harvest House Publishers.

Rating (on a scale of 1-4 hashtags): # # # 1/2

What it's about:  Lorraine Archer, a governess in Australia, and Donovan Riggs, a World War II Naval officer from California, are on a literal crash course to love.  Their story is one initially filled with desperation, grief, and anger, but ends in tenderness and stronger faith in the Lord.

Favorite Quotes

I didn't really have any favorite quotes, per se. 

What I Liked:
  • Every Storm was a very sweet story that drew me to complete the book rather quickly.
  • The characters experienced real pain and doubt, yet they also experienced true love, family closeness, and happiness.  They weren't plastic, predictable, or trite "Christian" characters.
  • Having the book set in the World War II era was a new setting for this author.  She did a good job in bringing the reader to that time period.
What I didn’t like: 
  • I couldn't really pinpoint anything specific that I didn't like about this novel.   It wasn't bad, but it seemed to be missing something.  I simply can quite pinpoint what the missing element is.  
  • I've read many of Wick's books, and this one wasn't her best. It didn't seem to go as deeply spiritually or romantically as other works by Wick such as Sophie's Heart and Bamboo and Lace, yet it wasn't bad.
  • SPOILER ALERT:  Without giving away names, one of the characters  dies.  There should have been more about his family and the aftermath of his death.  Yes, he was a minor character, but we needed more information.
TakeawayEvery Storm was a fun read.  I would recommend it as a end of the summer read or any time of relaxed reading.